Wednesday, March 18, 2015

Final thoughts...

Thank you all for your well wishes as we raced through these last few weeks with dad. His final days were peaceful. He was restful, calm, cogent and full of laughter up until the end. We are all very grateful for those special times, and would like to thank you for your emails, calls and cards that we shared with dad every day. 

For those of who who have asked, we will hold one memorial service in Kansas City at Aberdeen Village, 17500 West 119th Street, Olathe, on Saturday March 28, 2015, from 10-11:30 a.m. We also plan to celebrate dad's life and legacy in Larned at the Knights of Columbus on a date yet to be determined. Afterwards, dad's ashes will be interred next to mom's.

Memorials are suggested to Aberdeen Village Good Samaritan Fund, 17500 West 119th Street, Olathe, Kansas, 66061. His obituary is posted at www.kccremation.com.

I am attaching a copy of his obituary. Again, thank you all for your love and support.
Omar Schartz Obituary


Omar Schartz passed away March 13, 2015, at the age of 83, surrounded by his loving family at his home at Aberdeen Village, Olathe, Kansas. Omar was christened Charles Omar Schartz at Sacred Heart Catholic Church by his parents Charles Victor Schartz and Dora Louise (Sewing) Schartz. He was born on March 30, 1931 at St. Joseph Hospital, Larned, Kansas.
Omar was raised in the Zook community area south of Larned, Kansas, and attended Zook school until graduation from high school in 1949. He married his high school sweetheart (Gladys) Jewel George on January 29, 1951.
Omar and Jewel raised six children on a farm southeast of Zook which he bought at the age of 20. Jewel and Omar decided to terminate their farming and manufacturing operations in 1990 and moved to Larned to enjoy seventeen wonderful years of retirement. They made many dear friends in their little community at the top of the 4th Street hill.
Jewel passed away in August, 2007, and a year later Omar reluctantly made the decision to leave his hometown and move nearer to family in Olathe where he lived seven fruitful and creative years. His artistic career flourished as he completed more than 20 paintings during that period. He was a long-time Pawnee County farmer, self-educated engineer, businessman, artist, entrepreneur, and inventor, and is the holder of numerous patents. He personally wrote and published his autobiography in 2014.
Omar is survived by six children; Anthony Omar Schartz and his wife Gretchen of Amarillo, TX; Sharon Schartz Garman and husband Ron of Rogers, AR; Susan Schartz Rankin and husband Mike of Olathe, KS; Cynthia Renee Potter and husband Mike of Olathe, KS; Carolyn Kay Bahr and husband Joseph of Denver, CO; and James Charles Schartz and wife Lisa of Abilene, KS; 13 grandchildren, Mindy (Schartz) Lehman, Jeff Schartz, Jenifer (Schartz) Kriewald, Tyler Garman, Joe Rankin, Paul Rankin, Joel Potter, Ashley (Potter) Azeltine, Alison Faye Bahr, Britany (Bahr) Harris, Jamie Schartz, Aubrie Schartz, and Jacob Schartz; 13 great grandchildren; one sister Corrine (Schartz) Brack, and husband Bob; two brothers Greg Schartz and wife Betty, and Gordon Schartz and wife Malia, and numerous nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his wife Jewel Schartz, parents Charlie and Dora Schartz, and sister Carol Jean Schartz.
A memorial celebration will be held at Aberdeen Village, 17500 West 119th Street, Olathe, Kansas, on Saturday March 28, 2015, from 10:00 a.m. to 11:30 a.m.  A dinner celebrating Omar’s life and legacy will be held at the Knights of Columbus in Larned, Kansas, on a date to be determined.
Memorials are suggested to Aberdeen Village Good Samaritan Fund, 17500 West 119th Street, Olathe, Kansas, 66061. Messages of condolence can be left at www.kccremation.com.

Monday, March 9, 2015

Omar's Final Harvest

 
Dad's final harvest...
 
 
 
Dad spent a lifetime sewing the seeds of great friendships...
 
Clark and Judy Redding

 
 
 The Hill Gang Cougars

 The Hill Gang
 
The Hill Gang bids adieu - May 2008
 
Anniversary celebration, 2001

 We do not want to guess the meaning of Judy's rad gang sign.

Dad's last day on The Hill. Judy's smile betrayed her sadness at seeing him leave.

Bottom row L-R: Cindy, Susan, Dad's sister Corrine Brack, Mike Rankin
 Back row: brother Gordon, Dad, Corrine's hubby Bob.
 
Dad's brother Greg Schartz
 

Forty years - forty great years. Pat and Barb Turner

Bill Walter, a wonderful friend and art buff at Aberdeen

Suzanne Wiley - we are so grateful she brought our family into the fold at Aberdeen.

Mom and Dad, August 2007

Dad signing off...

Dad's systems are beginning to fail and the cycle of life continues. Life's ebb and flow is something dad has always respected and revered.

His children and grandchildren are by his side day and night. He is never alone. We want you to know how important all of you have been to him and he continues to remember and reminisce about the love he holds for each of you, dear friends. 

Wednesday, March 4, 2015

March 4

 
  

Greetings all -

Dad has been struggling with various issues, including extreme fatigue, pain, lack of energy, and loss of appetite. We were visited by hospice today and have a strategy for moving forward.

Hospice has moved a hospital bed into his bedroom (along with all the accoutrements hospice has to offer), and that has helped immensely. He lacks enough energy to get out of bed, but we are able to attend to all of his needs, which are few. He is his usual jovial self, just in short spurts. He is sleeping most of the time, but when he is awake, we are all entertaining him with silly jokes that cause him to rear back in quiet laughter, which causes the rest of us to laugh loudly at our own puns.

He is the dearest of patients, and refuses to complain, although he does have pain issues that we are trying to deal with. He eats little bits here and there, with a few swallows of water now and then. We have plenty of meds to deal with the many issues that arise, but he sleeps very well.

Pictures from this week:
Paul talking "car talk" with dad March 1, 2015.


Susan hosted a soup supper with Mike's family March 1, 2015. Pictured L-R:
Dad, Paul, Nastya Barkova, Pat Rankin, Homer Rankin


 


We all enjoyed a delightful Italian fest from Zios. March 4.
L-R Payden Harris, Sharon Garman, Tony Schartz, Abbie Lehman, Gretchen Schartz, Mindy Lehman,
Mike Potter, Carolyn Bahr, Susan Rankin (photographer Brit Bahr)
(Not pictured: Jim Schartz, Aubrie Schartz, Jamie Schartz)

March 3: Jim pontificating about the best way to fry potatoes...

...Jim schooling us girls on how to fry the perfect taters
even though he did not have his cast iron skillet. March 3.

Me, dad and Sharon (March 3)

March 4, 2015. Dad relaxing in his adjustable bed, catching up on the news, email and his favorite blogs.
We have tons of family around right now and for many days to come, and it has been a true delight.

I know you all will regret not being in attendance, but The Singing Schartz Sisters serenaded dad with a few refrains of Sentimental Journey, Sugartime and Lullaby for Jim (written by mom).

My Ali and Joe are heading this way on Friday, so I will definitely update with more pictures and news then.

Thanks to all of you for your love and support. Again, if you want to contact dad, the best method is email at oschartz@Comcast.net, or via mail at Omar Schartz, 17500 West 119th Street, Apt. 3210, Olathe, KS 66061. I'm available by phone (913-645-4651).

Love to all - C

P.S. Science mystery of the day:

Dupuytren's Contracture (Omar, Sharon x2, Carolyn)

Monday, March 2, 2015

March 1, 2015

Greetings family and friends!



Brit and I joined dad for brunch on Sunday February 21.

I'm happy to update you all on dad's progress as of March 1, 2015. Dad is getting along pretty well. He had a long night of flu several weeks ago, and it has really taken it out of him. He was out of bed all night with stomach flu, the likes of which he hasn't experienced in 50 years. (And don't think for a minute that he enjoyed any of it!!!)  Mike Potter brought a lunch over to him the following morning after he had made contact with the sisters, and Cindy checked in on him again that night. The flu was resolved but the weakness has haunted him for weeks, unfortunately.

Dad is dealing with various issues which may be associated with his tumor (which is located behind his left ear and starting to encroach down his neck and further up behind his ear), his macular degeneration, or possibly just miscellaneous aging issues. He's been struggling with hours of dizziness each day, but the more concerning issue is extreme fatigue. Dad's chosen treatment plan since the melanoma was diagnosed was to decline medical intervention.  The doctors did not give dad any static about that choice, and sent him home to play this thing out.  Naturally dad is not interested in seeking medical consultation on the fatigue or dizziness, but the girls are going to have home health come in a conduct an evaluation this week, just to see if something simple like oxygen will make things more comfortable for him or if there are any other types of strategies we an utilize to make sure he's not uncomfortable.

But, ole dad,  he's as cheerful as ever and still sharp as a tack. He's listening to audio books and continues to enjoy surfing the web on his iPad and watching sports on TV.

Following are a few pics from the last couple of weeks:

Brit and Payden visited dad for brunch on February 15. So sorry I cannot rotate this picture. It's rotated correctly on my hard drive, but it flips back over when I insert it into this blog.


Another picture from brunch with dad on February 21.
Regarding communicating with dad, and due to the extreme fatigue, dad is spending less and less time on the phone. So if you try to call him and he doesn't answer, do not be alarmed. Susan and Cindy and the two Mikes are constantly over there and will be able to help if he is ever in trouble. As an alternative to phone calls, please feel free to send him an email or a letter.

Also, we are discouraging personal visits as well because it wipes him out. If you are going to be in town, please check with one of us to see what his situation is that day. He spends hours trying to recover from minor excursions throughout Aberdeen, so we are trying to keep his outings and visitors to a minimum, both in number and duration.

We all appreciate your concern and well wishes! Please send dad an email or a card - those brighten his days so much! Here is his contact information:

Email: oschartz@comcast.net

Mail: Omar Schartz, 17500 West 119th Street, Apartment 3210, Olathe, KS 66061

Many thanks to Susan, Cindy and their husbands Mike and Mike for the extra tender loving care of Dad. Dad feels the same way about that crew of four that are keeping watch over him, and appreciates their love and attention every single day.

Thanks for reading the blog. Let me know if you have any questions (913-645-4651).

Carolyn